No? Seriously!?!?!?
This is something i struggle with EVERY day and EVERY time i see my MIL...
DH started drinking, no wait, HEAVILY drinking at age...9!!! yes 9 years old... this continued for 20 years !
His parents never once stopped him, never once grounded him, NEVER once said no...
He was allowed to drink as much as he wanted, when he wanted and his parents bought him booze...
He always says they couldnt have stopped him, but i know they could have, they were just lazy parents...
His sister was raised the same, and now she is a drug addidct been in jail the past 2 christmas' in a row and is living with some low life, does not have custody of her own child and does not work etc etc etc
I hate that he was raised this way, makes me so nervous about sperm count (we have yet been asked to do a SA)
maybe i look to much into it, but it makes me lose respect for his mom and dad
they were not parents in my mind, no child should be able to drink and drink heavily at 9 or 10 or 11 or 14 for that matter!
maybe i am too conserative, but I HATE HATE HATE that they did this
Its so hard when i hear his mom talk about it, i want to yell at her and tell her to go fuck herself, she is now raising her grandson who is 5 in 4 years from now, what if he was drinking?
i think i may ask her in 4 yrs when her grandsom is that age if she would agree
i am sure she wouldnt
and she jokes about how "out of control" he was... i hate it, come on HE WASNT OUT OF CONTROL YOU WERE NOT A PARENT... you were just along for the ride
so sorry if anyone agrees with this parenting style, i clearly DO NOT
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