The Story Of Us...

So i thought i would do a lil blog about how DH and i got together, and the things it took part of......



So i was working with a lady and didnt really know DH, i had met him a couple of times at parties, and with random mutual friends we had here and there... i knew DH as everyone else did, the "wild" one... he was fun, loud, very popular and "off the charts" so to speak i still love when i meet new ppl he knows (which happens allll the time stillhahaha) and they all describe events in the same way and him with the same words... he was a bit of a drinker and a country boy to say the least LOL

well this gal and i worked together for almost 3 yrs so u get to know ppl fairly well (about 55-60 hrs a wk in a highly behavioural group home for autistic kids, you get close your safety depends on them and vice versa) sooooo i hear about how she "percieves" things are going with her and yes DH... he has said he loves her, is possibly moving in and things are good. (this being a great gal, but also a 30 y/o who has never ever been in a relationship.....
So DH and i are both at a bday party that involved 300 jello shooters LOL *good times* and DH and i spent the whole night just talking absoultey nothing physcial what soever.... just chit chatting, about how things arent really like she thought and they hadnt even ever shared a meal , watched a movie together, or went to the mall to walk around, they had never done a single thing together... OK SO im confussed... i feel a connection with him, but dont want to go there, and ingore him and make a "big" deal about how we dont get along n i cant be around him etc... well she brings him to a christmas party, we all end up at her house after and him and i end up cuddling the night away(not realizing, fell asleep after a few cocktails talking, nothing else) and realizing in the am that we slept in the same bed and woke up cuddled up and hmmmm

so he msgs me saying we have to chat, he comes over for dinner, tells me how he feels, and i immediatley tell him he has to talk to her and expain its not what she thinks (i know shes going to be hurt, but so dont want to be the casue of someone elses pain like i knew it would bring...) and i tell him i have to know how she thought he said i love you...well long story short him and one best friend show up at her house at 200am drunk (lol dont judge hes a changed man for sure by his own choice, but he did used to drink as i said lol and a lot) and he laid on her bed and puked...she cleaned it up and he said ahhh i love you...... (clearly what any drunk person is going to say after they puke in your effin bed) and the moving in he was being a smart ass one night and said oh what next im ove in... so he tells her, i talk to her on the monday he told her friday night (her days off were fri sat and mine sat sun, so i seen her mon) told her he had feelings for me, she said she had a feeling and that things were good btwn her and i...then left and ppl got mixed in and now she hates me and is fine with him kinda random but yeah whoooo to get that out llol such a messed up situation for sure LOL


but as for us i could have never asked for more!!! hes such a provider, and giver, lover and soft hearted guy.... all he wants to do is love, provide and be a husband and a dad... he shocks ppl all the time as to how much "hes changed" but as to him he has finally "found something that makes him the person he always wanted to be..." its amazing as for describing him to me, i can not do,ill do a part 2 on this, but had to blog about how we got together