I wonder if "Fertiles" think about ttc, babies, pregnancy, sperm count, cervical mucus, legs in air, bd positions, etc as often as us not so fertiles do?
Do they ever think about where they are in their cycle, do they temp or opk?
Why is it so easy for some, and yet SOOOO difficult for others to concieve... I know it can not be Karma or something along these lines, as people who more than deserve children are left childless after much trials and trivializations...
So do they ever even talk about TTC... or do they have the talk and then BAM 1-3 months they are pregnant... Do they know why we try to smile, and say they are tears of joy (when they are honestly a lil mix of sadness in those tears)
Do they know how upsetting it is to hear "oh chill out it will happen when its meant to" who knows when meant to is, i guess its open ended with no exact date...
do they envy every pregnant bump they see... almost cry in the onesie section at wallmart when they only ran in for milk??? do they have a closet filled with things for the "baby to be who isnt concieved as of yet" before they are pregnant?
do they think about it 24/7 even when on TTC Breaks?
I know we all feel the same, all of us TTC'rs that is.. but someitmes i wish i knew what it was like to feel like a fertile woman who is ttc... no issues, preg first cycle, healthy baby 9 months later
Do their DH put as much pressure on them to have a comfy uterus? do they ever even frickin think of this crap???
Oh to live as a fertile for a few days... :)
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